“…Two people in torment,
hot sticky love
Separately they burn
Together they smolder…”

Fish Sticks is about “ongoing love and keeping relationships fresh”. … having a girlfriend or partner means you got to help her be the woman she is…

What do men want on Valentine’s Day? To make women happy! … As a man and father of two…success at Valentine’s Day has eluded me… first thing she would like is that “I actually planned”… give her the gift in the morning and she will love you all day… Facebook all of her friends about how wonderful you are… How smart she is to have chosen you… You too can be the Master of Connection

Do Tell Original game sounds like a great game for lovers and friends. A lot of people just need a little nudge to open up to more meaningful conversations. I grew up with a mom that was a therapist. If she thought I was upset about something, she’d want me to hit pillows with a [...]

I am responding to the other post: “I know now what being the guy in the relationship means“.  That is “me being a female fix-it type”. When I was in my twenties, I was dating a guy who was Mr. Fix-it.  One time my vacuum cleaner broke. I began to take it apart to try [...]

I wonder if any kid has happy memories of elementary school. It seemed like pure social torture to me, and many failed attempts to figure out how to “fit in.” Who were the kids that “fit”, and why? And then why did all the rest of us scramble about, trying to get their approval and [...]

I remember my first socialization with other boys from other neighborhoods, public school – first grade.  It was my first organized social life, everyone thrown together in one building and then grouped by grade. Social contact was miles between first and fourth graders at this school, yet back home in our own neighborhood we all [...]

“…Who has the real quality time with my kids? Not me. Not my wife. … My kids had expectations of me when I talked to them, like they expected me to be “Dad”. I did the same when I was a kid, my parents were parents. …”

“Honey, Men get confused when you try to correct them while they’re doing something nice. Usually the end result is not good. Sooner or later someone else comes along that is just a “little bit more supportive than you are” and… (to read more click on picture at left)

…Everyone has a unique relationship. We’re people, we’re different, and each relationship is unique among others. We bring our physical selves to this ongoing event, and we also bring energies, spirit, and sometimes the proverbial “age old gender roles”….

“…Probably nothing. At least until you heard “What were You thinking!” from your mate. At that point you actually started to think …not about ‘what were you thinking’, but about what your answer to this question is. It doesn’t sound good. Just what did you do? Probably something you’ve done before a hundred times…”

“…So as you read this, she’s probably looking at your picture and thinking/dreaming that once you two get married you will unleash this hidden knowledge, and she will be ecstatic the rest of her life, by you of course! She equates this ‘knowledge of you pleasing her’ you to ‘a year round flower garden’ …” CLICK on image at left to read more.

“when it comes to commitment discussions, guys are known for silence… this is where the “enlightened guy” comes in… The Ceremony and Vows… get to say how you feel … form your first agreements with the person you are going to be negotiating and agreeing with the rest of your life….” CLICK on image for full story.

“…you are beautiful just the way you are. Feel proud when you line up for the bus or register line at the supermarket. Let others know you have “baby on board”. May I suggest a stylish bright polka dot over-shirt combined with a brand new pair of orange-sherbet elastic pants…..”
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“… unlocking this could be equal to unlocking the “secrets of the pyramids”…” Click on Image at left to see more…

“…Is my clutter actually a state of mind I am trying to maintain, like some half-digested hobby or project “on hold sitting there at the ready” waiting to be started again or filed away for posterity. Or maybe Clutter is like …”

“…“Why do us men never seem to repair the defects” that would so easily change our dating score. My basic thought is that “If we thought it was that important, we’d change…”. Now obviously there is some disconnect between what “we guys actually think…” Click picture to read more…

“…The closest thing to self-help books for guys are “How to Fix-it or Build-it manuals” … If you’re a guy and want to feel good – build a deck, play hard rock, run and jump… pretty simple stuff really … there actually IS “guy mystique” and just maybe … it actually makes us laugh. ” Click picture to read more…

“…many of us are in such bad practice of not appreciating the world around us, we forget (to) …remember moments that made us laugh. …Appreciation changes us, …literally uplift the energy that belongs to a relationship or situation in your life, when you think about and speak appreciation. Your new reactions may change others. Your compliments certainly will begin to build a bridge.” Click Picture to read more ,,,

“Raising Kids and Stress Aren’t Easy, and a little humor laughing at this situations can help ease our day. This is one of the funnier ‘darker’ videos on their site. Again, great production by the Onion Team…”
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“…Hey guys, watch this short video and it will surely bring back some feelings, some compassion, for those few depicted in this video. …WARNING: Guys, do not show this to your girlfriend, they might not think this is “as funny as you do”…” Click picture to read more….