I was talking with my girlfriend last night. Laying on the couch and falling asleep while holding the phone. End of a long day. She was on the train heading home after class. The conversation slid around and ended up delving into “the bad day she had” and how she just finished a “meditation about how many things were wrong with her”. I said, with [...]
A floating lipstick kiss left in her wake and caught in time. A simple moment for romance… As guys, are we nuts? Is the mere suggestion of a woman in an intimate moment enough to cause us to pause in thought? Yet for her, I am sure this was a much smaller ‘moment in passing’ and considerably less intimate. Something that happens everyday, a beauty [...]
From floating in a plasma of seemingly endless stream of thoughts where my toes and fingers have no grasp I come awake and crawl upward gasping for another day of “air”… Repeat daily.
What do men want on Valentine’s Day? To make women happy! … As a man and father of two…success at Valentine’s Day has eluded me… first thing she would like is that “I actually planned”… give her the gift in the morning and she will love you all day… Facebook all of her friends about how wonderful you are… How smart she is to have chosen you… You too can be the Master of Connection
I remember my first socialization with other boys from other neighborhoods, public school – first grade. It was my first organized social life, everyone thrown together in one building and then grouped by grade. Social contact was miles between first and fourth graders at this school, yet back home in our own neighborhood we all played together – sports, cards games, bike riding, skate boards, [...]
“…Who has the real quality time with my kids? Not me. Not my wife. … My kids had expectations of me when I talked to them, like they expected me to be “Dad”. I did the same when I was a kid, my parents were parents. …”
“…Two people in torment,
hot sticky love
Separately they burn
Together they smolder…”
Fish Sticks is about “ongoing love and keeping relationships fresh”. … having a girlfriend or partner means you got to help her be the woman she is…
…Everyone has a unique relationship. We’re people, we’re different, and each relationship is unique among others. We bring our physical selves to this ongoing event, and we also bring energies, spirit, and sometimes the proverbial “age old gender roles”….
“…Probably nothing. At least until you heard “What were You thinking!” from your mate. At that point you actually started to think …not about ‘what were you thinking’, but about what your answer to this question is. It doesn’t sound good. Just what did you do? Probably something you’ve done before a hundred times…”
“…So as you read this, she’s probably looking at your picture and thinking/dreaming that once you two get married you will unleash this hidden knowledge, and she will be ecstatic the rest of her life, by you of course! She equates this ‘knowledge of you pleasing her’ you to ‘a year round flower garden’ …” CLICK on image at left to read more.
“… unlocking this could be equal to unlocking the “secrets of the pyramids”…” Click on Image at left to see more…
“…Is my clutter actually a state of mind I am trying to maintain, like some half-digested hobby or project “on hold sitting there at the ready” waiting to be started again or filed away for posterity. Or maybe Clutter is like …”
“…“Why do us men never seem to repair the defects” that would so easily change our dating score. My basic thought is that “If we thought it was that important, we’d change…”. Now obviously there is some disconnect between what “we guys actually think…” Click picture to read more…
“…The closest thing to self-help books for guys are “How to Fix-it or Build-it manuals” … If you’re a guy and want to feel good – build a deck, play hard rock, run and jump… pretty simple stuff really … there actually IS “guy mystique” and just maybe … it actually makes us laugh. ” Click picture to read more…
“…many of us are in such bad practice of not appreciating the world around us, we forget (to) …remember moments that made us laugh. …Appreciation changes us, …literally uplift the energy that belongs to a relationship or situation in your life, when you think about and speak appreciation. Your new reactions may change others. Your compliments certainly will begin to build a bridge.” Click Picture to read more ,,,
“Raising Kids and Stress Aren’t Easy, and a little humor laughing at this situations can help ease our day. This is one of the funnier ‘darker’ videos on their site. Again, great production by the Onion Team…”
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“…Hey guys, watch this short video and it will surely bring back some feelings, some compassion, for those few depicted in this video. …WARNING: Guys, do not show this to your girlfriend, they might not think this is “as funny as you do”…” Click picture to read more….